Wow. It’s been three years.
Three years of learning, growing, laughing, stumbling, and standing back up. My son just turned three this month, and honestly, I still can’t believe how fast time has flown. It feels like just yesterday I was holding him for the first time …nervous, unsure, but excited.
I’ve always wanted to have a son. But wanting something and being ready for it are two different things. I didn’t fully understand the responsibility that came with raising a young man in this world. Now, I do.
Being a father isn’t just about showing up. It’s about being present. It’s about teaching, protecting, guiding, and loving unconditionally. And man, let me tell you this world can be cruel. I hate to say it, but it’s the truth. Life doesn’t come with safety nets or cheat codes. It’s hard. It’s unfair. And it doesn’t hold back. But that’s exactly why I know my mission as a father is important…. I’m here to prepare my boy for it.
Watching Miles grow into this curious little human has changed me. From the way he notices the birds in the sky to how he’s starting to understand the tough stuff like when his friends don’t want to share toys. I see him learning how this world works. And as he learns, so do I.
Here’s what being a father has taught me so far:
- Patience: Nothing teaches you patience like a toddler asking “Daddy” 400 times before breakfast.
- Adaptability: Plans go out the window when you’re raising a kid. You learn to live in the moment and adjust on the fly.
- Simplicity: Kids find joy in the smallest things. a paper airplane, a funny face, a hug after a tough day. It reminds me to slow down and appreciate life’s quiet gifts.
I’ve had some dark days. Days where I questioned everything. But two people always brought me back: Miles… and my mom.
My mom has been my rock through it all. She helped me when I felt lost, gave me strength when I was weak, and reminded me of who I am. And Miles? That boy gave me purpose. If it weren’t for the two of them, I don’t know where I’d be today.
Dear Miles,
Happy 3rd Birthday, my boy!
You are everything I never knew I needed. You’ve brought light into my life in a way I didn’t think was possible. Watching you grow has been the greatest honor of my life.
I want you to know something… life will challenge you. It will test you, knock you down, and make you question your strength. But I promise, you won’t have to face it alone.
I’ll always be right beside you. Through every storm, every struggle, every high and low. I’ll be there to teach you, fight for you, laugh with you, and cry with you.
Love you!
Last thing!! To new parents, future parents, and current parents…Life isn’t perfect, and parenting sure as hell isn’t easy. But it’s real, it’s beautiful, and it’s worth every second.
