What a rollercoaster it’s been! I always knew parenting wouldn’t be a walk in the park, but boy, nobody warned me it would be this wild! When I shared that Facebook post about my son keeping me on my toes, I wasn’t kidding. From those early morning wake up calls “Da Da” to his insistent reminders that it’s time to leave the store, my son has truly become the captain of my life. And you know what? I wouldn’t have it any other way.
I’ve gotta admit, being a dad has changed me in the best possible way. This little guy, my one year old whirlwind, has become my anchor in a sea of chaos. I’d move mountains and cross oceans for him. Oh, and Mom, if you’re reading this, I’m really sorry for all the stuff I pulled growing up. It’s all come full circle now!
Let me share with you some of the invaluable life lessons my pint-sized guru has bestowed upon me.
1. The Slowdown Day
Life moves at a breakneck pace, but my son has taught me the beauty of living in the moment. Every second and every minute with him is a precious gift. He’s shown me that in the midst of our hectic lives, there’s something magical about appreciating the now.
2. Family Trumps Work
As a first responder, the last few years have been an unrelenting storm of demands and pressure. But my son has reminded me that no matter how demanding work may be, my family needs me more. He’s shown me the importance of balancing priorities and understanding that life is short. Work can wait, but my son’s childhood is racing by.
3. Put Down the Phone and Listen
My phone and computer used to be my lifeline & joy, to the point of addiction. But my son swiftly put me in my place. He made it clear that his beautiful smile was more captivating than any screen. I’ve spent more time outdoors in the past year than I have in a decade, and I’ve got my little twin to thank for that.
4. Closer to God
I’ve come to realize that as my son grows older, he’ll face situations and challenges where I won’t always be there to lend a helping hand. So, I’ve found solace in prayer like never before. I may not have grown up in the church, but I’m teaching my son about faith and the power of praying together. It’s become a ritual that strengthens our bond.
Of course, my son has taught me countless more lessons, both big and small. To truly capture them all, I’d have to write a book, and I’m just hoping I can teach him as much as he’s teaching me along this incredible journey we’re on together.
So, to my son, the little tornado who’s turned my world upside down and inside out, I love you more than words can express. Happy National Son Day!
